According to Steve Harvey, author of the famous novel Act Like a Lady , Think Like a Man , “A man’s love is expressed in three forms: he declares his rights to you in public, he protects you, and he takes care of you.” However, part of this saying can be doubted because, in our time, not all women need to provide care or protection from before men, but what they definitely need is love, and unfortunately, women sometimes tend to see love when it really isn’t there.
Sometimes a woman can feel that something is wrong without having to hear it from her partner, and in the following report, Bright Side gathered 5 signs that a man’s strong feelings of love and adoration have faded:
criticize appearance
For a really loving guy, you’re always pretty, even with messy hair and weight gain, he won’t notice that you gained a few extra pounds after winter break if you don’t say it yourself, but if your man constantly tells you to go to the gym or points out that you need plastic surgery Don’t rush into it, it’s probably not your appearance that doesn’t suit him but you yourself, and even if you lose weight, he will find other flaws in you.
criticize appearance
Discuss your shortcomings with friends
Women tend to discuss problems in relationships or their partners’ shortcomings with their friends, while men try not to talk about everything, no one is perfect but truly loving people focus on the partner’s merits rather than the flaws.
If your partner allows himself to be humiliated in public and laugh at your failures, then do not expect anything good from this relationship. Such a partner does not respect you, and relationships are impossible to continue without respect. By criticizing you with other people, he subconsciously tries to prove to others (and himself) that it is your fault. He stopped loving you.
Discuss your flaws with your friends
His attitude towards your habits
Women love to complain about men’s socks being strewn all over the house but sometimes they have annoying or weird habits, we like to occupy the bathroom for two hours and talk to our girlfriends as often as possible, or fill the wardrobe with unnecessary things, or keep singing the same song all day, loving Men, as a rule, tolerate all this and remain silent or react with humor, and if your man is constantly checking every little thing you do and making negative comments about your behavior, then he is starting to get bored and less of his love for you.
Pay attention to your stories
Scientists have proven that a man is able to listen to a woman attentively for only 6 minutes, that’s why, next time you plan to have a conversation with your lover, keep it short, the topics that are difficult for a man to focus on are celebrities, shopping, fashion, diet, If possible, it is best to discuss these types of things with your friends.
However, if a man sees that something is very important to you, he will make an effort to listen to you with interest, even if this topic does not interest him completely, and when he loves you, he will not leave you without interest, but if he continues to change the subject or runs away with various excuses whenever You try to talk, most likely, your fears do not bother him.
Pay attention to your stories
His attitude towards your feelings
Men can never stand women’s tears, so don’t use crying as a way to affect your lover too often, in fact, when you cry, the only thing a man wants is to run away and not see you, but if he loves you, he will gather himself and do everything in He can try to comfort you even if the reason for your crying seems insignificant to him, and he will calm down only when you start smiling again, however, if he doesn’t love you, your tears will be all the more reason to be angry with you.
His attitude towards your feelings
