The emotional relationship is considered pure as long as it is not tainted by some situations that may disturb this relationship. The stability of emotional relationships depends on the loyalty of the two parties, and not allowing one of them to betray the other party. That betrayal is frequent, which reflects that he is sick with betrayal, as Dr. Eman Abdullah, a consultant psychiatrist, explained in her talk to “The Seventh Day” that there are some men who may deal as if they are still single and not married, which many women may consider as a betrayal of them. And not taking into account their feelings, as I explained several ideal ways to deal with this type of men as follows.
traitorous husband
The psychological consultant said that the wife who senses her husband’s betrayal should prevent her mind from entering a state of continuous doubt or blame for herself, especially if she feels that the betrayal was due to her negligence, with caution in placing herself in comparison with the one who betrayed her with her, in addition to good thinking. In the causes of infidelity, whether the lifestyle of the man with whom she is related is the reason, or it is a lack of understanding and apathy between them so that she can control her emotions, with the need not to monitor the husband completely so as not to turn her life into hell with her own hands.
Dealing with a cheating spouse
She also set an important “prescription” for dealing with the traitorous husband, which is not to self-flagellate with regard to the wife, or to reprimand herself, and to criticize her way of dealing with the husband, and not to blame him or always remind him of his action so that the idea does not take root for him and becomes palatable, in addition to not directly forgiving the traitor. Rather, he made him a probationary period to make sure that he would not do it again, but if the betrayal was frequent and indifferent to feelings, the wife should separate immediately because this is considered a pattern of the husband’s personality that will not change.
