Human relationships, which may last for a long time, are difficult to get rid of or forget, and leave an impact in our hearts that cannot be healed for days or years, and may remain engraved in the mind and heart for a lifetime. Separation, but he may find it difficult if he truly loves from his heart, and cannot forget his life partner.
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“The Seventh Day”, with Ihab Moawad, a family relations consultant, shows you some conditions for reconciling your ex-lover, if you really love him, explaining that it is necessary.
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To admit his shortcomings:
In order for love to continue, all parties must admit their faults, as Moawad said that if a person separated from his life partner, he does not return to him unless he confesses in front of him his faults so that he does not repeat them.
To hate his faults:
That he knows well that the result of these shortcomings has caused him several problems, and made him lose the most people who love him, and be honest in that, as “Moawad” explained that the older a person becomes, the less chances he has of change, because he falls into the circle of education, habituation and lifestyle. which he is accustomed to.
The moment of parting
change decision:
The person, when giving another opportunity to restore the relationship, must make sure that that person decided to change, and completely stay away from what bothers you from him.
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Moawad added that every person has flaws that can be overcome, and original flaws that can be coexisted with, and this varies from person to person, and the strength of opportunity and insistence on reform varies according to the size of that person’s heavy-handedness.
And he added: “In 30% of my personality itself, I must change them as my life partner will change in the same proportion with his consent, that is, we share the change among us.” And he continued: “Any mistake made once or twice can be forgiven, provided that the other party acknowledges the mistake, but if it is an authentic trait. In it and admitting his mistake, he will not be able to get another chance because he will repeat it.”
Give your partner another chance
And he stressed the need to pay attention to managing the dispute, as he continued: “We are watching the reaction of the other party in discussing the problem, a calm response or a rude response, and at that time we will determine whether we will give him an opportunity for reform or not.”
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