Tact plays a very important role in some people’s lives. Many suffer when talking to others because of the loss of tact. For this reason, many problems occur with family and friends, while many fall into this problem unconsciously or unintentionally, so “the seventh day” will be displayed. With etiquette and appearance expert Shahanda Shawar reports on learning the art of attractive speech.
The etiquette and appearance expert said in her speech to “The Seventh Day”: “Etiquette is the good behavior that works to attract everything from life behaviors to daily speech and dealings, and we can describe it as good speech. A year before talking to her, there are people who reject good words and praise, and translate it as hypocrisy, and on the contrary, there are many people who love good words, and some even consider it as payment or moral support.
Talking to the husband
And she continued: “There is no person who does not like to hear words of praise and thanks to him, or praise his work or its appearance, but here comes the role of awareness in human culture to differentiate between his words being attractive, and his words becoming hypocritical, as there is a hair between good speech and hypocrisy, so it is necessary to Be careful and not exaggerate in praise, and that the speech has a good effect only without personal interest.
Attractive speech rules
The rules of attractive speech etiquette:
Talk to the boss or friends:
Speech should be clearly stated and not loud or inaudible, and accompanied by a calm smile and not loud, so as not to turn the situation around and make them feel like you are making fun of them, especially while talking to your boss or a friend.
If you are talking about yourself or about a general topic, try to be positive about life or about certain life situations, because this is also classified as attractive speech, making those around you feel happy and positive, and we must take into account the good voice and the appropriate way, while choosing a positive topic. , with appropriate facial expressions containing attractive speech among them.
Maintaining a smile when talking to others, or when talking about yourself in a positive action is an important step that makes your speech attractive as well. You must have an acceptable light smile.
Take into account the personality difference:
We must preserve the differences between a man and a woman. A man is a rational person and a woman is a more emotional person. Therefore, it is preferable for a man to talk a lot about love when talking to his wife.
Avoid negative words:
When the couple, he answers the woman to deal in a positive way with her husband, and reduce talking about negative news or problems, and when talking to him, you must give him the feeling that he is the leader or “super hero” of your life.
Respect the dialogue:
Do not interrupt others when speaking out of etiquette, as well as you can sometimes remain silent until the other party finishes his speech, and then you speak.
Away from criticism:
Don’t start talking criticism or gossip about others, stay away from questions that contain personal details, such as asking about age or weight, and avoid commenting on outward appearance unless it is a positive comment.