The relationship of love is one of the loftiest relationships that bind two hearts together and may be crowned with marriage, but the relationship will be complicated if your partner has multiple relationships, which the girl may discover after she falls in love with him, and soon finds justifications and makes plans to fix himself, but she does not realize That it takes a long time to change, as emphasized by Dr. Jamal Farwez, a consultant psychiatrist.
Froese says that a multi-relationship person needs behavior modification and not treatment, as he explained the elements of forming his personality as follows.
First, the elements of character formation
The consultant psychiatrist explained that personality consists of three elements, beginning with genetic genes that a person derives from parents, then education since childhood, which has a greater impact on the personality of the individual, whether positive or negative, then life experiences and mixing with friends or colleagues, so he acquires from them some other tendencies Which is the character in the long run and can not be changed unless the person in the multi-relationship actually desires to do so.
Second: Determine the reasons for the multiplicity of relationships
The consultant psychiatrist confirmed that the multi-relationship person has several reasons that make him so, such as addiction to multiple relationships, a desire for sexual gratification, or a hobby of manipulating the feelings of girls to satisfy his desire for a sense of himself and his personality, which may be incomplete and can only be completed by his feeling of desire permanently. He also stressed the need to know The girl is so good that she can tolerate this kind of man so that she can continue with him as if he did not want to change himself, and if she could not end this love story elegantly.
Determine the causes
Third: Is polygamy sick and can it change?
And about the urgent answer that most girls want to hear about the possibility of changing a person with multiple relationships, the psychiatrist confirms that this type of person can never be fixed unless he is completely convinced that he suffers from a problem, provided that the treatment is a repair and modification of behavior and not his feeling that he is sick and capricious multiple,
He added that this type of person suffers from a disorder, not a disease, and needs to be modified and not changed, saying: “There is no need whose name changes, and every need is known from the beginning, whether it is behavior or tendencies, and the girl must bear it in order to be changed, which is in the long run, provided that he is convinced that he needs to modify his behavior.”
It needs modification, not change