“There is no chemistry between us.” How many times have you found yourself repeating this word about your relationship with someone without a clear reason for your incompatibility and incompatibility? Acceptance or what we describe in the popular expression as “chemistry” can be reciprocal and may not occur reciprocally, or one of the parties is receptive to the other, but the other party does not accept it.
To find out whether someone accepts you or not, Dr. Tamer Shalaby, a body language expert, explains several points that reveal whether the other party accepts you or not:
uninterested person
eye language:
The body language expert says that one of the most important points that clarify the degree of acceptance of people to each other is the language of the eyes. With your words, and that you are of no importance to him.” He added: “The eyes are the most important element of interest in talking to people, and they are in front of you.
not looking at you
And he added about not looking directly at the person while speaking and trying to evade with his eyes: the rule says that 90% of the person not looking and trying to hide his eyes during the conversation suggests that he is a person who is not interested or receptive to the person in front of him or a liar in his speech.
body angle:
The angle of the body when someone is talking to you means a lot of interpretations. If the person directs his body towards you and is sitting in front of you in a decent manner, this suggests that he cares about you, but if the body takes an opposite angle or somewhat sideways, this suggests after inner interest or rejection.
body angle
Choice of words:
If the person who deals with you is working on choosing difficult and inappropriate words in his conversation with you, this means that you are of no importance to him, while deliberately underestimating you and your business, as the body language expert continued: “Even if the words are normal, but they are accompanied by eye looks that contain contempt or Lip movement in which there is resentment, the explanation is clear that this person is deliberately showing his hatred and mockery of you.
resentment
the movement:
The body language expert added that a person who is not very interested in talking to you is a lot of movement without stability during and during talking with you, and he continued, “You feel that he says I don’t have time to listen to you and I don’t want to know what you are saying.”
the movement
How do we deal with someone who does not accept us?
The body language expert confirmed that the presence of these indicators does not necessarily mean that the problem is in you, but rather in the person who deliberately deals with you inappropriately, and about the ways of dealing with the person who shows signs of not accepting you, he said: “Do not let this person take you to his beard, consider him sick and trying to You talk to him, and if it happens, he completely ignores his actions so as not to fall into the corner of the reaction, and you will be forced to deal in the same way and the matter will reach you to a hated and outcast person like him.”
body movement
