Mistakes always happen, and in emotional relationships the most important step after tolerating mistakes is to restore trust again in the other party, and today as we celebrate the International Day for Tolerance, here are some steps that must be taken, according to the website “Psychology today” to restore confidence in the relationship if he makes a mistake. Your partner is in your right and you have decided to forgive him sincerely:
Say nothing and do the opposite
It is imperative that you stop saying things that you will not do, or that do not represent your actual feelings, even what appear to be simple lies, when it is repetitive, it will tell the other person that they should no longer trust the things that come out of your mouth, and never say that you Forgive your partner while you reminisce and discuss their mistake from time to time.
Do not overreact
It is important to be tolerant, as every human being is prone to making mistakes, so do not exaggerate the punishment of the partner and do not be harsh with him when he commits any mistake in it. He was worthy of your love for him.
Keeping partner’s secrets
You must act responsibly and keep the secrets of the relationship between you and not involve a third party in the private matters between the two partners and not talk about it in front of others.
Listen to the other party and discuss it
What we need most is someone who can hear our concerns, understand our feelings and stand by us, which is exactly what both partners need. Listening and sharing makes our emotional life more profound and powerful.
Consult your psychiatrist
Do not be ashamed to seek help from social or psychological specialists, as they are the most able to advise you, and give you the ability to rebuild your relationship with your partner, especially betrayal if a major crisis occurred between you that you could not easily overcome.