Tracey Emin today revealed she lost her mother four years ago to the same bladder cancer that left her critically ill and claimed she predicted her own diagnosis in a painting.
The artist, 57, discovered she had a tumour in her bladder in June and feared she would be dead by Christmas, but is now in remission after doctors removed the growth and put her on chemotherapy.
Miss Emin was diagnosed with squamous-cell bladder cancer, an illness she was tragically familiar with. ‘My mother died of the same cancer,’ she told the Telegraph. ‘Four years ago today.’
Her mother, Pam, died in October 2009 aged 88, after doctors decided following a course of radiotheraphy that it would not be possible to operate.
Tracey Emin is pictured with her mother Pam in 2009, who died from the same cancer she has been diagnosed with four years ago
Pam was regularly seen supporting her daughter at shoots, and the artist has described how losing her felt unreal and ‘so untrue’.
She took the surname Cashin, and admitted in an interview that because of this ‘not many people’ knew she was Miss Emin’s mother.
The artist realised something was wrong with her own body when she began to feel tired in the spring, and would wake up in the morning after dinner the night before hungover and vomiting.
She added: ‘During lockdown, I realised it would be impossible for me to have a UTI, because I hadn’t been out of the house for 12 weeks. Then, during lockdown, I became more and more ill.
‘I got an appointment with my urogynaecologist, and she found a giant tumour. I had an MRI scan the next day, and a phone call that night saying, ‘You’re going nowhere, you’re doing nothing – you’re going straight to hospital.’
The artist was working on a large red canvas at the time she saw her urogynaecologist, and felt that in some way it predicted the terrible news she was to receive.
After returning home from the MRI scan, she walked over the painting to inspect it.
‘It looked finished, but it wasn’t – I could paint more on it, paint over it,’ she said. ‘I was wondering what it was, looking at it, for something like two hours.’
Shortly afterwards Miss Emin heard the news, she was suffering with very aggressive squamous cell cancer, which surgeons feared would kill her in months if it spread to her lymph nodes.
As a result, a decision was made to remove not only her bladder but also her uterus, fallopian tubes, ovaries, lymph nodes, urethra and part of her colon and vagina.
Prior to the surgery, Miss Emin said, she stayed up for 24 hours with her solicitor rewriting her will before sending an email to 70 friends breaking the news of her cancer and instructing them: ‘Do not contact me’.
But now, following a six-and-a-half-hour operation carried out by 12 surgeons in July, she is in remission.
She has been left with a stoma bag as a result of having ‘half my body chopped out’ and is still struggling to find the energy to paint.
In another frank interview with The Times, Miss Emin admitted that if she had received the diagnosis last year she ‘probably would have topped myself’.
But, she said, she was now glad finally to be talking about the illness, as it would stop people assuming she was just hungover when too unwell to attend events.
Discussing her ordeal she said: ‘It was squamous cell cancer, which means it’s really rapid, really aggressive. It’s known as bad cancer.’
She recalled her surgeon telling her: ‘We have to move fast. But the good news is, your bladder is really c**p and what we’re going to do is just take all your bladder out and the cancer will be gone.’ But, she added: ‘It didn’t turn out like that.’
Miss Emin was told if they found cancer in her lymph nodes during surgery she would be dead before Christmas. ‘That’s what the stakes were.’
Remembering her conversation with the surgeon, she recounted: ‘He said, ‘So we’re going to remove your bladder and we’re going to remove your uterus, your fallopian tubes, your ovaries, your lymph nodes, part of your colon, your urethra.’
‘I said to him, ‘Oh my God, anything else?’ And he said, ‘Yes, part of your vagina.’ And I went, ‘Oh ****ing hell’.’
Miss Emin was diagnosed with cancer earlier this year and is in remission after an operation. She is picture (above) in a selfie taken in August but released yesterday
Miss Emin had suffered from frequent bladder infections as a result of having to self-catheterise since doctors discovered her bladder had ‘blown out and stopped working’ when she was in hospital for appendicitis five years ago.
However she decided to seek help from a Harley Street urologist in June after finding her catheters blood-stained and experiencing pain that felt ‘really wrong’.
An MRI scan detected the growth and she underwent the dramatic surgery a month later, she told The Times.
Following the diagnosis Miss Emin joked: ‘I said to the doctors, ‘So I’m going to lose a load of weight and have a really tight vagina – and this is bad?’ ‘ Of the surgery, she added: ‘I managed to keep all of my clitoris. Not that it’s working.
‘But they had to cut away a whole side of the vaginal wall and sew it back together, so it’s really, really sealed.’
She said she hoped that would not be permanent but will require a series of therapies. Despite her upbeat attitude to her ordeal, Miss Emin admitted: ‘If it was a year ago I probably would have topped myself anyway, because I was so depressed.’
She added that while she was now on the road to recovery she had not yet been able to do the thing she loves most – paint.
Miss Emin told The Times it had been a relief to her that she was childless, explaining: ‘There was one big problem I didn’t have to face, did I? Didn’t have to look my children in the face and say, ‘Mummy might be dying’.’
In a separate interview, with art website Artnet, she said: ‘Yesterday, I was crying because I wanted to paint and I didn’t have the energy to do it.’
The artist said that following her recovery she was hoping to find love.
When asked about her future ambitions she said: ‘Well, it’s a lot different from what it was before.
‘To get past Christmas would be a good one. I would like to be with someone who really, really loved me for who I am. But also they’d have to really love my art.’
Pictured, arriving at the annual British Book Awards (known as the Nibbies) at Grosvenor House, Park Lane on April 20, 2005 in London
Miss Emin said: ‘I can feel more than ever that love is allowed. At my age now, love is a completely different dimension and level of understanding. I don’t want children, I don’t want all the things that you might subconsciously crave when you’re young – I just want love.
‘And as much love as I can possibly have. I want to be smothered in it, I want to be devoured by it. And I think that is okay.’
Squamous cell cancer of the bladder accounts for about five in 100 of all bladder cancers.
The survival rate for women at one year is 64.5 per cent and falls to 43.9 per cent at five years. Miss Emin, who lives in Margate, Kent, was nominated for the Turner Prize in 1999. Her famous works include her unmade bed installation.
She is gearing up for the launch of her latest exhibition Details Of Love, but she will not be at the opening in Brussels this Friday.
Next month Miss Emin will exhibit her never-before-seen paintings alongside works by Norwegian expressionist Edvard Munch as part of a ‘landmark exhibition’ at the Royal Academy.
Tracey Emin/Edvard Munch: The Loneliness Of The Soul will focus on themes of grief, loss and longing, with Miss Emin picking 19 oil paintings and watercolours by Munch, including his 1907 painting The Death Of Marat, to explore his complex relationship with women.
These will sit alongside 25 of her own pieces, including paintings – some of which will be on display for the first time – neons and sculpture.
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