Each of us seeks to live in a calm environment and an atmosphere full of happiness and love with his life partner, but with the first problem, each party begins to accuse the other of being the main cause of strife and creating crises, which is due to several factors, including what is social or psychological, in addition to the difference Temperament, which raises the question: Who is the most grumpy? The man or the woman? Which is what Dr. Walid Hindi, a mental health consultant, answered in his speech to “The Seventh Day” saying: “Sadness is a human quality associated with the man and the six, and there is no man who is vexatious in the absolute, nor is there any vexation in the absolute, and he adds that for this reason it is not possible to generalize the adjective of grievance and give it a female character. Or a masculine hue, but there are general psychological features related to discontent in women and men, and they are as follows:
* Women are distinguished by their nature with a sense of humor, humour, and “spreading” more than men, as women are the makers of happiness.
* A man can transform a woman’s happiness into sullenness. It is known that men’s moodiness is systematic and intended, not accidental.
* There are some men who have traits that bring discontent to women, such as the man who does not bear the responsibility of the house and does not care about the affairs of his children, his “brain amplifier”, and this man is the wife’s affliction factory, where he provides her with the “raw material for discontentment” and the truth is this quality has always been called (the official sponsor The discontentment of a woman in this case is a reaction, not an action, so it seems that the phenomenon of sluggishness is female from the outside, but it is the opposite from the inside.
* Women, by nature, have emotional intelligence and have very high emotions, and therefore their response to situations is quick and they appear sullen easily, especially if their husband is cold.
* Some housewives or full-time women feel empty as a result of they do not work, and that their lives are not organized, so they try to prove themselves through some kind of “severe” attitudes, which is called (negative or reverse self-proof).
* As for the working wife, she gets nervous in some situations if she does not find the appropriate appreciation from the man, so she appears sullen greatly.
* The nature of women is volatile due to continuous physiological variables, for example during pregnancy, women develop pregnancy depression.
The consultant psychiatrist also warned of discontent and its danger to the Egyptian family because it causes serious problems, such as marital silence, separation, abandonment, betrayal and divorce, and also leads to the husband’s neglect of his home and his children, in addition to psychological and physical diseases such as stress, diabetes and death sometimes, we advise the husband not to make sullen nor the wife aroused. From any reaction, it is rumored to be vexatious.
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